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Pillar Three
Ejaculatory Control
Ejaculatory timing is a trainable skill more than a fixed trait. Nervous-system regulation, pelvic floor strength, and honest partnership will move it further than any pill sold on the internet.
Education
Common Contributing Causes
- Performance anxiety and general psychological stress
- Relationship stress or disconnection
- Inexperience or infrequent partnered sex
- Genital hypersensitivity
- Hormonal imbalances
- Prostatitis or pelvic inflammation
- Learned patterns — including rapid response trained by high-speed, high-stimulation solo habits
The Protocol
Non-Medication Approaches
- Pelvic floor training (Kegels) to build ejaculatory control
- The classic behavioral drills: 'start-stop' and 'squeeze' techniques
- Mindfulness and slowing arousal awareness — noticing sensation instead of racing it
- Open communication with your partner to reduce performance pressure
- Working with a sex therapist or somatic sexual healer — this is exactly the territory Faith works in
- Reducing masturbation to high-speed, high-stimulation content that trains a rapid pattern
- Breathwork and parasympathetic nervous-system regulation